this will probly be moved but fk it

im trying to run my own private server(2.3 with SQL) - for just me to play
iv set everything up, I think the only thing thats wrong is the CharDb, it wont load on the M2server exe. and when i run the main Exe to play the game it says ConnectionClosed.

(i'll upload a screenie in a sec)

My MSN is Leon.gib@hotmail.com if u would like to run me through it please -would be very appreciated